You cannot be a friend to your child because you cannot share anything!
You always speak and never listen to him/her because you always act bossy.
Since you forget your faults you never tolerate their faults and forgive them.
You cannot spend a qualified, enjoyable, special time with him/her because you are negligent or you are too busy!
You do not charge him/her with a duty (even a duty heavier then he/she can do!) because you are coward and hesitant!
You neglect physiological contact with him/her which shows love and compassion and you do not hug him/her tightly because that’s the way you were treated in your family!